Monday, May 12, 2008

when the internet is down.... @ 10:52 AM

Sigh.. One of the rare days that I'm actually home early, but the internet is down!!!
I need internet before I go to sleep :(. But well, here I am typing rubbish that would only be published the next morning just to kill time. Haha!

Anyway, moving on to a more interesting topic (I hope) - about relationships! Or rather, about guys/girls that are already in a relationship.
I've witnessed my fair share of cases the girl frequently calls to "chat" with the boyfriend, or get very annoyed when the guy only return the call like an hour later, and it ended with a 3hour long confrontation, only to have the guy coming out (almost)pissed. These are the kind of things that will cause breakups. Ok, but this is not the most extreme case.
The most recent one I've heard was ( and coincidently I knew both the guy/girl) about how the girl *forbid* him to go out late at night, and that he has to be home when she calls.
I heard they did broke up once, course it became a long distance relationship after they both graduate, and the guy moved on to get another girlfriend. Upon hearing that, that girl flew all the way to london to kick up a big fuss, and threaten to get him sack from his company, just so that she can have him back.
I feel damn sad for the guy when I heard that la, like he definitely can deserve better (ME!). And these kind of girls really spoil the market. Like get a life lar, what for evolve to some controlling bitch when you are in a relationship?
Ha but that's just my one sided view la, because according to my personality test, I am the one who refuse to have life-long commitments, thus I would probably be the one that's more bochap.
But then again, I represent about 5.4 % of the population, so I am the minority Hmph!!!

I love to hear all these stories about other pple's relationships. One : Because I am very kaypoh! Two: Because I always feel that I have something to learn from all their experiences, so when it is my turn, I won't screw it up. Okay back to discussing about me again, I am naturally nonchalant ( is that how to spell it?) about stuff. I was rather chilled when I found out that my ex bf went out with his ex gf when we were dating.
Where to find girls so understanding like me? WUHAHAHA! course I really see no big deal la, you can't just restrict him just because u r in a relationship right? All girls have their share of guy-buddies what, so vice versa. But then again, with my kind of personality, comes boring-ness la.
So too bad lor, freedom or excitement, take a pick! Beware of those fun girls (if you r reading this mr dong fa), they will be the ones controlling you :P.

I think right, I will be a damn good gf, but I would probably be accused of not being caring enough. Course I am totally not that sort to just randomly call and say sweet things like I miss you, I love you, blah blah blah.
So, back to my (almost) mid mid life crisis that I experienced a couple of weeks ago. I wasn't so entirely convinced about myself, since it seems like no guys like = loser.
Now, I can finally say, FREAK them, its their loss. Hmph!
Thanks for those who r involve in prep talking me up !

But with that said, I am going to work hard to become a tai-tai, prefably to a rich chinese indo guy. Wuhahahah!
You know what, I think I will even be dangerously calm if I ever find out that my future husband is having an extra marital affair. I m scary. Hmph.

Monday, May 12, 2008

when the internet is down.... @ 10:52 AM

Sigh.. One of the rare days that I'm actually home early, but the internet is down!!!
I need internet before I go to sleep :(. But well, here I am typing rubbish that would only be published the next morning just to kill time. Haha!

Anyway, moving on to a more interesting topic (I hope) - about relationships! Or rather, about guys/girls that are already in a relationship.
I've witnessed my fair share of cases the girl frequently calls to "chat" with the boyfriend, or get very annoyed when the guy only return the call like an hour later, and it ended with a 3hour long confrontation, only to have the guy coming out (almost)pissed. These are the kind of things that will cause breakups. Ok, but this is not the most extreme case.
The most recent one I've heard was ( and coincidently I knew both the guy/girl) about how the girl *forbid* him to go out late at night, and that he has to be home when she calls.
I heard they did broke up once, course it became a long distance relationship after they both graduate, and the guy moved on to get another girlfriend. Upon hearing that, that girl flew all the way to london to kick up a big fuss, and threaten to get him sack from his company, just so that she can have him back.
I feel damn sad for the guy when I heard that la, like he definitely can deserve better (ME!). And these kind of girls really spoil the market. Like get a life lar, what for evolve to some controlling bitch when you are in a relationship?
Ha but that's just my one sided view la, because according to my personality test, I am the one who refuse to have life-long commitments, thus I would probably be the one that's more bochap.
But then again, I represent about 5.4 % of the population, so I am the minority Hmph!!!

I love to hear all these stories about other pple's relationships. One : Because I am very kaypoh! Two: Because I always feel that I have something to learn from all their experiences, so when it is my turn, I won't screw it up. Okay back to discussing about me again, I am naturally nonchalant ( is that how to spell it?) about stuff. I was rather chilled when I found out that my ex bf went out with his ex gf when we were dating.
Where to find girls so understanding like me? WUHAHAHA! course I really see no big deal la, you can't just restrict him just because u r in a relationship right? All girls have their share of guy-buddies what, so vice versa. But then again, with my kind of personality, comes boring-ness la.
So too bad lor, freedom or excitement, take a pick! Beware of those fun girls (if you r reading this mr dong fa), they will be the ones controlling you :P.

I think right, I will be a damn good gf, but I would probably be accused of not being caring enough. Course I am totally not that sort to just randomly call and say sweet things like I miss you, I love you, blah blah blah.
So, back to my (almost) mid mid life crisis that I experienced a couple of weeks ago. I wasn't so entirely convinced about myself, since it seems like no guys like = loser.
Now, I can finally say, FREAK them, its their loss. Hmph!
Thanks for those who r involve in prep talking me up !

But with that said, I am going to work hard to become a tai-tai, prefably to a rich chinese indo guy. Wuhahahah!
You know what, I think I will even be dangerously calm if I ever find out that my future husband is having an extra marital affair. I m scary. Hmph.